"Will you tell your friend that his wife is having an affair with his friend?"

A review of The Malaysian Community by Truefriend written on Thursday 16th of April 2009

Hi guys,

I am chinese woman and my husband is malysian. I am thinking to give my friend advice but I am not sure what is the best way.

We know this story about one good malaysian man in Swansea from mutual Malaysian friends in different cities that this man's wife(she is malaysian) has been having an affair with the husband's friend (this guy is white) for years. We have seen all evidences and the guy had admitted himself that he is sleeping with her and he is still being a good friend with the husband!!! Of course, he husband has no idea about what has been going on for years.

The husband is a very rich man and generous and offering this friend financial helps all the time while his wife has occasional weekend trips to hotels in London or other cities(outside swansea) to be with her husband's friend.

This man said he loves this woman and asked her to leave her husband and daughter. But she said he could not give anything to her and she could not give anything to him. So she did not leave her husband and daughter.

I feel upsetting and it is not my business to do anything. It is like seeing shop lifters are stealing stuffs in the shop and I don't tell shop assistants.

We went to church and pray for the husband and daughter yesterday and discussed about this to minister. Minister advised us to tell the husband, we can not just turn the blind eye on this matter because we are in the same community.

Will you get involve with this matter?

I still can not decide..

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